Change Ahead: a Domme's Perspective

Until two weeks ago today, I had been maintaining this blog without my wife’s knowledge. It’s not that I was intentionally doing it on the sly: hell, I’m not even completely sure why I started this blog let alone why I didn’t tell her about it at the outset. Even though I was 99% sure she’d have no problem with it, as the weeks went by I began to feel, twinges of guilt you might say, simply because I was doing it without her knowledge. I think my guilt stemmed from the sort of relation we have built for ourselves. There is virtually nothing that we hide from one another. And no matter how you cut it, though my motive here is innocent, by my not telling my wife about this blog, in essence it was something that I was concealing.

I’m relieved to say that my conscience is once again clear. Goddess V knows about this blog, has read all of my posts to date and whole-heartedly approves. Make no mistake, her approval means the world to me, not just as part of this lifestyle but in everything I do in life. But that may not even be the best part. What I’ve said here, as well as comments my posts have received, has become yet another topic of conversation between us. Undoubtedly it also provides her not only with further insight into how I think as a submissive husband, but also how I view her as my dominant Goddess. Heart-felt, honest communication is always a great thing!

Aside from whatever personal motivations I had when beginning this blog, part of my intention has been to help promote Loving Female Authority, Wife-led Marriage and FemDom in general. I know that some who read this blog are already there. So I’m preaching to the choir. But there are others, perhaps skeptical wives, perhaps male sub wannabes (MSWs) who are trying to muster the courage to confess submissive desires. Toward this end, I talked to Goddess V about contributing to this blog because I suspect that what she can contribute to the cause may weigh more heavily when it comes to promoting LFA. Happily, she has agreed to express her views as a Domme and to answer questions that readers may wish to direct expressly to her. So hopefully this blog will become much more than my musings about being a submissive husband and will take a more beneficial step toward promoting Loving Female Authority.