Change Ahead: a Domme's Perspective

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Until two weeks ago today, I had been maintaining this blog without my wife’s knowledge. It’s not that I was intentionally doing it on the sly: hell, I’m not even completely sure why I started this blog let alone why I didn’t tell her about it at the outset. Even though I was 99% sure she’d have no problem with it, as the weeks went by I began to feel, twinges of guilt you might say, simply because I was doing it without her knowledge. I think my guilt stemmed from the sort of relation we have built for ourselves. There is virtually nothing that we hide from one another. And no matter how you cut it, though my motive here is innocent, by my not telling my wife about this blog, in essence it was something that I was concealing.

I’m relieved to say that my conscience is once again clear. Goddess V knows about this blog, has read all of my posts to date and whole-heartedly approves. Make no mistake, her approval means the world to me, not just as part of this lifestyle but in everything I do in life. But that may not even be the best part. What I’ve said here, as well as comments my posts have received, has become yet another topic of conversation between us. Undoubtedly it also provides her not only with further insight into how I think as a submissive husband, but also how I view her as my dominant Goddess. Heart-felt, honest communication is always a great thing!

Aside from whatever personal motivations I had when beginning this blog, part of my intention has been to help promote Loving Female Authority, Wife-led Marriage and FemDom in general. I know that some who read this blog are already there. So I’m preaching to the choir. But there are others, perhaps skeptical wives, perhaps male sub wannabes (MSWs) who are trying to muster the courage to confess submissive desires. Toward this end, I talked to Goddess V about contributing to this blog because I suspect that what she can contribute to the cause may weigh more heavily when it comes to promoting LFA. Happily, she has agreed to express her views as a Domme and to answer questions that readers may wish to direct expressly to her. So hopefully this blog will become much more than my musings about being a submissive husband and will take a more beneficial step toward promoting Loving Female Authority.

6 comments:

oldbear said...

Dear Lady Vee, thank you for participating in this blog, and thank you for making our internet friend so happy with your Goddess-Reign! VK, I am so happy for you! Once again OldBear the wussy boy is teary. LOL.

You do have a great attitude towards Vee (sic-apologies if that is not the Lady's name) and all women. And you have a sensible, servile style that even macho semi-fools like me respect.

I hope in some small way the comments that we have posted here were a lil bit more than talk it ove items. I hope they communicated to you the respect some of us have for: You as a knight, Vee as the Loving goddess who controls your life and soul and heart, the special nature of your marriage-friendship-love affair, and the Wisdom she has shown in inducing you to crave her service.

you are one of the best women-lovers and best women-respecters on the net. you all ought to be proud of that!

Lady Julia said...

Outstanding news! I'm looking forward to reading Goddess V's thoughts.

Her said...

I look forward to reading what Goddess V has to say.

I really enjoyed working my way through your archives, btw. Thanks!

Sheen V said...

I, too, am glad to hear that she's accepting of your blog and will contribute. Anything she can say that will convince other women to take charge of a relationship and how men can better allow them to is great info.

Queen'sKnight1 said...

VeezKnight,

I just discovered and read through your entire blog tonight. From your style to the substance of your thoughts, I was simply amazed at how similar your experiences and attitudes are to my own. It was eerie to the point that I felt I was reading the prose of a long lost twin.

I look forward to reading more of your pilgrimage into that most sacrosanct realm of Wife-Led Marriage and of hearing the thoughts of your lovely V. I also look forward to what I hope will be a rewarding correspondence with another husband and male who so closely shares my world view.

QueensKnight1

Submissive Husband said...

I enjoy your blog.

Bravo for letting your wife into
your blog.

I still not have the guts to show mine to my wife.