LFA Opens Doors in Marriage

I hope to be a role model for women here. At least to help them understand what a female-led relationship can mean for them. Especially wives who have been approached by their husbands about it. Okay so maybe there’s a certain amount of kink involved. Course that depends on your idea of what’s kinky and maybe you’ll need to change your views a little when it comes to that. But don’t worry about that for now. We’ll talk about that later and trust me, it’s no big deal compared to what LFA will do for your marriage. I’ll give you a small example. As I was writing this VK was in another room working on a home improvement project. When he poked his head in the room I told him my feet were freezing. I asked him to get me some socks and put them on me. Did he balk? NO---he just did it. Without the rolled eyeball look he would have given me a few years ago. I didn’t “command” him or threaten him with a whip I just said my feet were cold and he took care of it. Sounds like a little thing, I know, but add up a bunch of little things and it becomes HUGH!

I’m thinking maybe I need to back up some. I was married before for 20 some years. I mostly stayed at home raising kids while my first husband worked---a lot. He was never home. He brought home the money to support the household. That’s important I know. But later when the kids were mostly grown I remember standing in my kitchen one afternoon and sinking to the floor crying, saying to myself “I can’t live like this.” I wanted more and I don’t mean a big house, flashy cars, expensive clothes and jewelry. I never cared about all that crap. That’s not what makes me happy. Anyway, my marriage ended because I guess it’s true that sometimes people grow together and sometimes they grow apart. There were a couple of miserable years there that weren’t good. Mostly because I carried a lot of guilt. Which was my own fault. For what? For wanting something more in life? For wanting what I felt in my heart was right?

GODDESS V TIP:
A woman should never, never allow anyone, especially a man, make her feel guilty about being true to herself.

I promised myself that in my next relationship---if there was to be one---I would have what was most important to me. I’m a romantic at heart so I wanted romance. I’m passionate so I wanted passion. I’m an honest and open person so I wanted a best friend that I can talk to about anything and who will talk to me about anything. I want someone who will share life through all it’s ups and downs and let me be ME. Not just in the early courtship stages. I think this should and CAN continue in a relationship between two people who love each other, not dwindle and stagnate over time. And if I’m gonna be in love, I wanna be held up there on a pedestal by the man I love---not because I think I’m any more special than any other woman on this earth, but because I am the woman he loves. That’s what I mean when I say Worship Me As the Goddess I Am. Loving Female Authority makes all this possible---and more. It’s opened doors to closeness and caring that I never had before. To continue.