Goddess V Joins Us

Where to begin. I would have to go back a few years to have this all make sense.

My husband and I had an awful fight. One that left me feeling like I had to end the relationship, (at the time we weren't married). I asked him to leave for a few days and he did. I had been telling him for months that he needed to be more attentive to me. How do you explain that to a reasonably intelligent man? When he returned, we went away for a few days and talked, or I should say, I talked---the entire time. When we got back things were at a point where he said he understood what I wanted. But I wondered if he could/would live up to the standards I needed in order to have this relationship work.

He did that and more. I noticed a change in his behavior a few months after we returned from our weekend trip. He was being more attentive, so much so that I was wondering how he learned this on his own. Well, I was about to find out just how he knew. He emailed me one day and asked me this question: "Do you think women are superior to men?" I of course didn't hesitate on that and said, "YES". A few days later he handed me a book… Elise Sutton. I didn't read this right away. I did skim through some and I told him that I already think that way, so why give me the book? He really didn't say much. He didn't want to push me into anything. So he just let it go while I started thinking about how much he had changed.

As time went on he would print out questions and answers from Elise Sutton's web site. I would read them and think---this woman knows what she is talking about. I then picked up her book and read most of it. Some of it I already knew in my heart (it's the Goddess in me). So this allowed more opportunity for us to talk very openly about the FemDom lifestyle. I knew FemDom would work for us. But I also began to realize that I needed to change my thinking a little.

GODDESS V TIP:
Boys, don’t push too hard. In the beginning it’s probably your agenda and not her’s. Don’t whine don’t beg don’t badger. Let her digest the information and give her time to think things over.

At first when a woman and her man consider a FemDom relationship the spotlight might be too much on things like spankings, whips and heels (I wear high heels all the time anyway). Many people may have an image of me in leather with 5-inch stiletto heels and a whip with wall brackets for his collar and cuffs, right? Well, some of this is true [grin], but this lifestyle really isn't all about that. It is more about embracing your female authority and asserting your femininity to turn your marriage into a more loving relationship where he will do anything you want. To make it whatever you want it to be. Think about that, ladies… sound too good to be true? It isn’t.

Women need to finally figure out what it is all about. Women can and should have control. All it takes to assert yourself is to realize we hold the "cookie". VK talked about this earlier. Of course it centers around what we women have between our legs but it’s also about our female sexuality in general. It is true men get lazy after a night of passion. A few quick squirts and they no longer are listening to you! So hold back. Taunt him with a look here and there and a touch or a peek from time to time. Get his motor revved and give him NOTHING! I am not saying you NEVER give him your cookie, not at all. I don’t believe in total denial. Besides, I like sex. I’m saying don’t be bashful about using a tool that nature gave you to control a man. Be brazen. You’ll soon find your man is more loving and attentive than ever. And if he still doesn’t tow the line the way you’d like, take his pants down and spank his ass—it’s a great way to teach him that he needs to obey the rules or he pays the price.

We’ll talk more about all this and much more. This was just to let you see a little of "Goddess V."