tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20935247.post2254767150847866125..comments2023-07-06T10:37:25.613-04:00Comments on Wife-Led Marriage: The gift of autonomy in a wife-led marriageVeezKnighthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00021331580700938324noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20935247.post-33789188340613827262009-11-02T00:30:44.335-05:002009-11-02T00:30:44.335-05:00GREAT POST!Thank you for emphasising that it's...GREAT POST!Thank you for emphasising that it's about what the wife wants and not about the husbands fantasies.BOBnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20935247.post-53311804061754415932009-09-26T15:36:15.689-04:002009-09-26T15:36:15.689-04:00To the writer of the above post, your wife is neve...To the writer of the above post, your wife is never wrong, she only has a different oponion than you. It seems to me that she is letting you cum way too often. If she is dominant in the bedroom, she should be carrying that into everyday life. If you fight with her, more weeks should be added to your length of wait time. There is no room for a headstrong husband in a FLR. Submit to her, massage her, offer to give her oral sex at night, and then tell her that to show your devotion to her that you do not want to cum until she feels your attitude has changed. That should put both of you on the right path. My husband has to wait at least one month, my guess is your wife is not making you wait as long. Or if she is, then two months would be better for you.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20935247.post-81259271589873063182009-09-25T12:17:57.807-04:002009-09-25T12:17:57.807-04:00But what do you do if your wife's a pain in th...But what do you do if your wife's a pain in the arse? My wife and I lead a clearly femdom lifestyle which tends to be based in the bedroom for the most part. But there's a conflict in everyday life because we're both quite headstrong and we argue a lot. I recognise that I'm more attentive when I get horny and I could see this being a useful tool to develop. Except the missus is such a hothead and, unfortunately, is often wrong! It doesn't matter how much I think I should knuckle under because of the femdom ideology, I just can't accept being on the receiving end of grumpy impenetrable nonsense. To the extent that I think we should give up.<br /><br />Oh Well...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20935247.post-43420116225832753322009-09-17T15:03:21.516-04:002009-09-17T15:03:21.516-04:00I couldn't agree more about keeping your husba...I couldn't agree more about keeping your husband very horny. He is kept that way and as a result he treats me like a queen. I don't do housework any more, he gives me massages on demand, and will take me out shopping or anywhere I want to go when I tell him that's what we are doing. He must ask my permission to watch sports on tv, and depending on his housework being done properly and his attitude, I may say yes or no. If I do say no, there is no begging or whining allowed, that's final and he knows it. He is also, like the husband in the other post, not allowed to ask to cum, or complain about being too horny. That' the idea I've told him, you're supposed to be. It's my decision and never his. We are very much in love, and everything, including punishments, are MUTUAL. Life can't get any better for me!!! We are in our early 50's, both of us are in great phsical shape (I am an aerobics instructor with a pretty good body), so I make sure that he does a daily conditioning session. But he is also a runner so he enjoys it. To make it fun at home I will wear only tight spandex pants and little tops for our exercise sessions together. I don't know if he is sweating from the workout or by watching me do my bends and leg raises, especially knowing he is not getting any for weeks. Make it fun, enjoy eachother, keep close, and you'll have a great WLR also.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20935247.post-21736303896417322762009-09-13T20:40:08.465-04:002009-09-13T20:40:08.465-04:00I agree with the above post, your husband has to w...I agree with the above post, your husband has to want to be your slave, this can't be forced. So ladies, keep reading this great blog, as well as Worshipping Your Wife. They will give you ideas on how to convert him. My hubby was easy, I was always the dominant one, so our relationship grew from there. Now he is my husband/slave, he could't be happier, he does everything for me, can't please me enough, and actually likes to take me shopping. I keep him VERY horny, not allowing too many releases in a year. The magic number is 10 ladies, 10 or under for the year. And he is not allowed to ask or whine about it, otherwise he loses his next one, so never a complaint. So space out 10 , or even less throughout the year, and don't worry about him, he'll do just fine. And you, you'll do FABULOUS!!!!!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20935247.post-26235812357728692652009-09-10T16:48:49.274-04:002009-09-10T16:48:49.274-04:00My husband is the one who suggested we try a compl...My husband is the one who suggested we try a complete WLR, which was easy since I was the dominant one in our marriage. But I made it clear that I want a 70% husband and 30% slave. I read one of the post on this blog where the wife took back her cheating husband but made it clear to him that he was going to be her complete slave from that point on. She had him crawl around and made him sleep in a kennel in an empty room in HER house. Well, I think she was still not giving him enough of what he deserved!! But I want my husband to want a WLR and treat me as such. I want to be wined and dined, and watch him do all of the housework while I read or watch tv. I can't force this on him. HE wants it this way. I'm not going to give him 20 lashes with my whip because he doesn't want to pamper me or do all of the housework. But if he does a poor job or ignores me ever then he will get 20 lashes while he is tied up for 2 hours. But I will wear a sexy bra and panty set to make him drool while I am punishing him, just so we can keep it somewhat fun. Keep your husband a husband /slave , not a slave/husband. There is a big difference, your WLR will be much better that way.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20935247.post-22946611611563076712009-09-08T15:38:36.233-04:002009-09-08T15:38:36.233-04:00I sent in a lenghty post, sent it a short one as a...I sent in a lenghty post, sent it a short one as a test to see if you are receiving them .HE WORSHIPS ME ThanksAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20935247.post-90739381092193175732009-09-08T15:28:01.520-04:002009-09-08T15:28:01.520-04:00Ther is a saying we live by in our WLR. "A h...Ther is a saying we live by in our WLR. "A horny husband is a good husband" Keep your husband in a chastity device, and make him wait at least 4 weeks for any relief, even longer the better. I make my husband/slave wait 2 months, and since he is not allowed to complain or ask (if he does he gets 2 more weeks) he is so great to me. Of course I get my oral sex, I'm not the slave, he is!!!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20935247.post-91994773732093145302009-08-29T21:38:51.611-04:002009-08-29T21:38:51.611-04:00I am pretty early on into a WLM (seven months). I...I am pretty early on into a WLM (seven months). I do know though, the D/s aspect can take many forms. Just to name a few, Bedroom submissive, 24/7 submissive, mistress/slave, acknowledged superiority, houseboy, ect.... there are others.<br /><br />Anyway, IMHO, with entrance of woman en-mass into the professional ranks of society, the patriarchal norms are waning and WLM is becoming more common, accepted, and sought after. As such, the antiquated view of dominatrix is becoming passé. Instead a remaking of the marriage norm where equality is replaced with a comfortable female superiority dynamic is more and more bubbling to the surface from shear inertia from the societal shift. For me, the dynamic change has brought contentment.Walter H. Schulze IIIhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00137440229102629342noreply@blogger.com