tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20935247.post116621001787434750..comments2023-07-06T10:37:25.613-04:00Comments on Wife-Led Marriage: The Dreaded S-WordVeezKnighthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00021331580700938324noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20935247.post-34395985617734071222008-02-29T21:41:00.000-05:002008-02-29T21:41:00.000-05:00I'm looking forward to reading your blogs, anonymo...I'm looking forward to reading your blogs, anonymous: <BR/><BR/>http://www.blogger.com<BR/>/profile/13499455024518840051Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20935247.post-29778681900546617172007-03-05T15:53:00.000-05:002007-03-05T15:53:00.000-05:00I'm the person that first introduced the term 'uxo...I'm the person that first introduced the term 'uxorious' to the vot forum. I don't like the term submissive because I do believe it has a negative connotation. For example, my wife has told me she doesn't want a submisive husband. She wants a real man. In other words, submissive is confused with 'wimp'. Maybe the word compliant is better.<BR/><BR/>But, overall I really do prefer the term 'uxorious'. For one thing, it has a mysteriousness about it, and is a somewhat erotic sounding word. Also, if more and more peoople in the FLR movement use the word, my hope is that it will become synonomous with something positive in a relationship. I dream for the day when all men aspire to be uxorious...<BR/><BR/>LynnAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20935247.post-1168728500396719632007-01-13T17:48:00.000-05:002007-01-13T17:48:00.000-05:00Here's the thing... submission sometimes brings co...Here's the thing... submission sometimes brings connotations of one being inferior to another; rather than a lifestyle choice based upon willing acquiescence. <BR/><BR/>I think the term "Acquiescent Male" is far more descriptive of the true nature of such relationships... a willing choice, someone who is compliant to another's lead or will. A slave has no choice...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20935247.post-1166951586558939182006-12-24T04:13:00.000-05:002006-12-24T04:13:00.000-05:00First off VK, I am sorry for the recent death in y...First off VK, I am sorry for the recent death in your family, and wish you and Goddess V many years of full-tilt happiness and exploration together!<BR/><BR/>As for this post, Well said VK! All of it! Especially the end piece.<BR/><BR/>Barbara, the way you described your relationship was beautiful!<BR/><BR/>I LOVE your analysis of feminine power! Romance to you and for you must be a lot of fun and deeply rewarding to your hubby!oldbearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03192748970108799675noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20935247.post-1166667057131760822006-12-20T21:10:00.000-05:002006-12-20T21:10:00.000-05:00The Jan. issue of Marie Claire magazine has an ent...The Jan. issue of <I>Marie Claire</I> magazine has an entire section of articles regarding <I>Alpha Females</I> some of whom are married to <I>beta males</I>. It is interesting that some of these <I>beta males</I> are lazy and unhelpful while others are strong yet supporters of the woman who leads the relationship.<BR/><BR/>I think anyone who enjoys this blog would find these articles intriguing.Queen'sKnight1https://www.blogger.com/profile/07297326848639816860noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20935247.post-1166393257329022542006-12-17T17:07:00.000-05:002006-12-17T17:07:00.000-05:00i couldn't agree more with your sentiments V's kni...i couldn't agree more with your sentiments V's knight.helpmate hubbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17480655063916487449noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20935247.post-1166280336172115322006-12-16T09:45:00.000-05:002006-12-16T09:45:00.000-05:00I would go along with richard as far as terms "sub...I would go along with richard as far as terms "submissive/slave" etc. are concerned.<BR/>I'd rather consider us sexually superior, because nature has equipped us with natural powers that men don't have. We posses ingredients that men desperately need, crave and long for, much more than we do need them.<BR/>This simply does create an imbalance which makes us sexually powerful and superior ( provided we are not being oppressed ! ).<BR/>However as human beings I find that we are all equal and I treat my man as well as such.<BR/>I would never call him slave or any other insulting names.<BR/>He may be submissive to womanhood, having recongised female sexual superiority, but still I much rather consider him a "well trained gentleman" or my "knight in shining armour", who is willing and happy to suffer for his Queen's happiness, pleasure and satisfaction.<BR/>It is much more down to worship and adoration, rather than enslavement !<BR/>He is my hero, even though I have to admit that he is totally "pussy whipped" and willing to endure anything for my pleasure, but this as a proof of his love and adoration for me and not as a submissive slave !<BR/>BarbaraBarbarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09595435834941097914noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20935247.post-1166222445315852752006-12-15T17:40:00.000-05:002006-12-15T17:40:00.000-05:00Might be best for a guy to say he'd like her to be...Might be best for a guy to say he'd like her to be more assertive rather than he wants to be more submissive.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20935247.post-1166218130808331622006-12-15T16:28:00.000-05:002006-12-15T16:28:00.000-05:00I'm glad this change is taking place because so fa...I'm glad this change is taking place because so far, this journey of figuring out why my sexuality is so different hasn't been challenging enough.<BR/><BR/>I don't think the S word will ever be a problem with predisposed dominant women, because they already know they're looking for a submissive male in the first place. The only place where the S word becomes frightening is when a submissive male shares this information with his vanilla wife. Being afraid to use the term submissive when trying to convert a vanilla woman into a dominant one is a small obstacle compared to what lies ahead. <BR/><BR/>The obvious mismatch in sexualities is a far bigger fish to fry than worrying about the words we use to describe it.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com