tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20935247.post115469117192104582..comments2023-07-06T10:37:25.613-04:00Comments on Wife-Led Marriage: I Get No Kick from ChampagneVeezKnighthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00021331580700938324noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20935247.post-1155951047848098342006-08-18T21:30:00.000-04:002006-08-18T21:30:00.000-04:00I am a 47 year old new bride who has a husband who...I am a 47 year old new bride who has a husband who like to tie me up and likes to be tied up. He likes to be as he puts it "at my will" I am so clueless. I have no idea how to do this but I'm ready to try. I need some suggestions. I'd really like to start soft and work our way up. Yes, I knew my husband was kinky when I married him. But I didn't know I was. Right now he's in the shower and I'm searching for something to get the night started. Something soft but erotic. Any suggestions for our future would be great.<BR/>Also...how do you come up with what your submissive calls you. I've been thinking of names for a week and haven't found the right one yet. <BR/>anyway...thanks.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20935247.post-1154914920748262182006-08-06T21:42:00.000-04:002006-08-06T21:42:00.000-04:00Yup - it's all about communication. What a wonder...Yup - it's all about communication. What a wonderful set of insights about how important that is, so much more than what form the relationship takes.<BR/><BR/>Sex is (most often) the most intimate thing that we do. And that's the intimacy that gets lost and buried under 10 or 15 years of being parents, having careers, and having lives.<BR/><BR/>The <I>risks</I> we take by having the conversations that lead up to a wife-led marriage are the things that make the relationship work. Seeing you and VK write about it and work at it is really inspiring for those of us trying to get there. <BR/><BR/>ThanksJamiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15220401590544076155noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20935247.post-1154871428535133962006-08-06T09:37:00.000-04:002006-08-06T09:37:00.000-04:00Have you ever looked at www.slavespath.net? The F...Have you ever looked at www.slavespath.net? The FemDom relationship described there seems to have run out of steam. One could say that "there must have been a failure to communicate", but that would only remind me of a scene in the movie "Cool Hand Luke".Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20935247.post-1154831433797272902006-08-05T22:30:00.000-04:002006-08-05T22:30:00.000-04:00Wonderful insights Goddess V, your input is always...Wonderful insights Goddess V, your input is always so interesting. I'd be curious as to how the lifestyle has improved your work life as well.helpmate hubbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17480655063916487449noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20935247.post-1154734093789379552006-08-04T19:28:00.000-04:002006-08-04T19:28:00.000-04:00To watch the two of you blossom into roles where t...To watch the two of you blossom into roles where the both of you shine is a fantastic journey. I'm sure with previous relationships, not understanding or at least hiding who you really were was a constant challenge. I can see the jubilation in your words when you blog V, it's great that you are happy. No more beating a round peg into a square hole and wondering why you're not entirely fulfilled. I hope you'll find time to blog. I'm sure many readers will agree, that being able to peek into your mind about D/s is an invaluable help in their own lives. Thanks for sharing.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com